Celebrate Recovery

Recovery is scary

2009-09-11T13:36:00.000-07:00

Recovery is scary. Even thinking about recovery is scary. It's a life transformation, and big changes in life are always frightening...but because Christ walks with us, we can have hope, faith and courage.

Joshua 1:9

Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.

Christ walks with us, every step we take. Unfortunately, some of us have taken Christ into some pretty shameful places!

But He forgives us, understands our weaknesses, and rejoices when we call to Him with humility and faith. Although we may be fearful facing the journey of recovery, we know he'll be withus each step of the way.

Psalm 23

The Lord is my shepard;
I shall not want
He makes me to lie down in green pastures;
He leads me beside the still waters.
He restores my soul.
He leads me in the paths of righteousness
For his name's sake
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I will fear no evil;
For you are with me;
Your rod and your staff they comfort me.
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies;
You anoint my head with oil;
My cup runs over.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me
All the days of my life;
And I will dwell in the house of the Lord
Forever

Enough said.

Ephesians 6:11

Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes.

We feel afraid because we feel alone. But we only feel alone when we do not feel God's love. Pray to Him for strength, courage,love. Feel your heart swell with God's love until there can be no room for fears that hold you back.

Who among us can resist "the devil's schemes" alone? We are weak, and faced with enough temptation, few of us can resist. But the Lord is strong, and the Lord will cloak us in an armor of faith. All we have to do is ask for it!

NEW STEP STUDIES! JOIN US

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The fall session of step studies has started. Join us every Wednesday at 7 for study and discussion. Anytime is a great time to take the first step toward recovery.

The Lord's Prayer...Week 7

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"This, then, is how you should pray: 'Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.' " —Matthew 6:9–15 (NIV)

Lead Us Not Into Temptation:

These words of the last petition of the Lord's Prayer come from our lips with greatest fervor. We have turned to prayer in a desperate hour to plead for deliverance and we ask that we may be taken out of the path of temptation.

There is no doubt in the mind of any one who is in trouble what the words of this petition mean, and there is rather little doubt, at least at first, what we wished to be saved from.

Temptation has sly ways, however. After we have all the gaps plugged. Temptation begins to whisper fairy tales into our ears, trying to get us to open up at least one of the gaps. Temptation hints that the diagnosis we made when we took the first of the Twelve Steps was not quite right. Why not take just one now and then? And why not ask to be delivered from the temptation of taking more than one? But then, three would be better, why not never more than three?

Or, Temptation may make a more direct assault. We're as big as God is: we can step off that cliff!

Well, maybe not quite; but we are capable of handling ourselves, and there is no reason why we cannot go down to the water's edge and wade around a bit! We forget that for us there is no shallow water.

Temptation stays with us, trying to build up our confidence, trying to make us believe that we have been cured, scoffing at the old troubles. Temptation slips in at the side door when we become proud and satisfied. It is the greatest to those who have persisted in remaining at the threshold of evil by always having that "Some day!" in the back of the mind. The most persistent temptation we have is the temptation to change the diagnosis. When we turn our backs firmly against that temptation we are likely to stay out of trouble.

Self love is a great pitfall, and the source of the great sins. Many of the temptations here seem rather innocent. But they lead, step by step to denial of the Supreme Power, to exaltation of the self.

For us, deliverance and temptation go together, and one of the most important evils that we seek to be freed from is temptation. Drink has become so much a part of our lives that we associate virtually
every act with it. The result is that the idea of drink, the urge to take a drink or to go to get a drink constantly pops into the mind for no apparent reason. The Devil here is experience.

As our sins may be forgiven if we are truly contrite, so may we be delivered from the evils we have created for ourselves, by being sorry for our misdeeds, by undertaking to make good for any injury we have done to others, and by striving not to offend again. We are bound to take positive action for the right and the good, and we are bound not to allow ourselves drift with our inclinations. We place
ourselves in the hands of the Supreme Power and follow the lead we receive from that power, away from temptation, away from evil.

[* Reprinted from a series of eight editorial articles written in 1944 and first published in the Cleveland Central Bulletin an Alcoholics Anonymous newsletter.]

The Lord's Prayer...Week 6

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"This, then, is how you should pray: 'Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.' " —Matthew 6:9–15 (NIV)

Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us:
No one who has completed his moral inventory can pass over this petition lightly.

First, what are trespasses? Any act contrary to the moral law, a neglect of duty, an injury or wrong to another person, is a trespass. "Moral" is used here in its proper sense as pertaining to action with reference to right and wrong and obligation of duty. It refers not only to things we have done but also to things we have neglected to do.

Some of our trespasses are easy to recognize. We have no difficulty in seeing our guilt in them. Others may be more difficult, partly because we have spent so much time in justifying and excusing our
acts or neglects that we have come to think of justification as answering the accusation. It is precisely at this point that our moral inventories must become fearless. Every excuse or justification must be challenged as being in itself evidence of guilt.

We should examine our conduct in detail and specify each trespass. This is important. The Lord's Prayer does not excuse us from responsibility for our acts. Nor is it a license for repetition of wrongful acts. We are bound to make reparation for harm that we have done, and we are bound to cease doing harm.

Our prayer is made daily. So should our inventories be made daily. In our prayer, we should keep in mind the things the inventories have revealed, so that we may make progress in correcting our faults.

"Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us." This petition is conditional. No one who is not willing to forgive can expect to be forgiven. No one who harbors hatred, malice and resentment in his heart can expect to find peace.

This condition is of particular concern to us, since so many of us suffer through resentment, self pity, jealousy, self love. It has been the experiences of all of us who try to control resentment that most of the causes of our resentments are found to be either imaginary or petty, and that they actually have done us no real harm. When we can rid ourselves of these resentments, we shall make progress.

Honest inventory often will reveal that in those cases in which we have suffered in our dealings with others, some of the fault, much of the fault, or even most of the fault has been ours. But even in those few instances in which we have suffered genuine injury at the hands of others, we are bound to forgive. Certainly we gain nothing but harm to ourselves when we allow resentment to fill our minds and
consume our energies. When we forgive, we heal our minds.

[* Reprinted from a series of eight editorial articles written in 1944 and first published in the Cleveland Central Bulletin an Alcoholics Anonymous newsletter.]

The Lord's Prayer...Week 5

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"This, then, is how you should pray: 'Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.' " —Matthew 6:9–15 (NIV)

Give us this day our daily bread:

This is the 24-Hour Plan of life in the Lord's Prayer, and as such it is far from being the simple petition for the gift of food that it seems. This petition is worthy of our particular consideration, since it has special meanings for us in AA.

"Bread" in the Lord's Prayer means all the things that man needs to sustain life. The petition is concerned wholly with material things. Every material thing, whether it is food, clothing, shelter, a convenience of life or a means of pleasure, is solely the product of the labor of man applied to the gifts of nature. We get nothing without labor, but our labor would not be fruitful were it not for the gifts of nature, which are the fruits of the labor of God. It is a fundamental law that man must work if he is to live. It is a fundamental truth that life depends on God's bounty.

"Give us this day our daily bread" is first of all an acknowledgment that we are dependent upon God's bounty. But those who will take the trouble to read the Sermon on the Mount, in which the Lord's Prayer
appears, will discover ample evidence that the word "daily" in this petition is of greatest importance.

"Give us today bread for today," the petition means tomorrow's bread we will seek tomorrow. Thus, this is a renunciation, one that grows out of the last of the Ten Commandments (covetousness). It is linked
spiritually with the declaration that "Man doth not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of God." Granted that man must have bread, he must not make the pursuit of
material things the ruling passion of his life.

Now this is of particular interest to us. For most of us in AA became alcoholics largely because of our concern over material things. A few of our younger alcoholics are simply undisciplined children who have devoted themselves to the pursuit of pleasure and escape from the responsibilities of life. But most of our older alcoholics are men and women who have suffered frustration and disappointment, who have discovered that the aims they had in youth never are to be realized. We have had to cut our patterns to fit our opportunities, to walk when we had hoped to soar aloft. Moreover, the depression that preceded the present war made alcoholics of many men who ordinarily would have escaped.

Devotion to material things made tragedy out of disappointment.

No one would suggest that we turn away from the material entirely. We must care for our needs and our family's needs. And in our present economic order, a prudent man will save something if he can.

But if we are to have health, economic pursuits must not be our ruling passion. Ambition and pride and covetousness, the desire for wealth and the demand for power must be curbed, and with them, the
resentment and jealousy that come in the wake of frustration. We have to learn to be satisfied with what we can achieve, and in learning to be satisfied, it is well to renounce something of our aims. We may start by being practical. We may go on by finding interest in higher things. The man who has given up
greed is on the way to happiness.

[* Reprinted from a series of eight editorial articles written in 1944 and first published in the Cleveland Central Bulletin an Alcoholics Anonymous newsletter.]

The Lord's Prayer...Week 4

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"This, then, is how you should pray: 'Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.' " —Matthew 6:9–15 (NIV)

Thy Will Be Done:

So few words that we can utter are as vital to us as these words in the Lord's Prayer, "Thy will be done." In uttering these words we surrender to the will of a Power greater than our own. This is the essential act in the third of the Twelve Steps, the step that is the very heart of our program.

The instincts that rule our material selves are largely instincts of self-preservation. They make Self our first concern and they are the causes of most of the troubles that we can fall into. Self-concern leads to egotism, to self-assertion, to vanity, to lack of concern for the feelings of others: It leads to things that destroy us: lust, greed, and similar excesses of body passions.

A sane view of life is that all things are good in their right use. But we have devoted ourselves to the misuse of a number of things and have regarded ourselves accountable to no man. Now that the bill
for our misconduct has been presented, we find ourselves thoroughly rooted in misuse and thoroughly the victims of our impulses.

Now that we are in AA, most of us have recognized our chief errors. Most of us see the need for control, for responsible action, for curbs on selfish acts. We have seen how some of the results of our
habits of thought, in resentment, in self-pity, in jealousy, in other aspects of self-love, return again and again to harass us.

Our head strong tendencies demand surrender, demand a yielding of ourselves to the will of an external power. To place ourselves in the hands of that Power, we have to create new habits of action to
keep us out of old ruts.

We may continue to do all the things that nature intended us to do, but it is important that we do those things under control. We must control impulses, particularly those associated with our excesses.

Most difficult, perhaps, are those times when there is an urge that we cannot define, just a general tension under the skin and a hazy hut strong impulsive feeling in the mind. These are times when it is
particularly necessary to call on the aid of the Supreme Power.

We must develop the habit of turning to the Supreme Power at all times, at regular daily intervals, at times when we are under stress. Impulses should be discharged by addressing ourselves directly to the Supreme Power and asking for guidance. We must learn to see the signs of headstrong and self-willed action and remember the troubles that such action has brought in the past. Our watchword here is, "Easy does it."

It is the will of the Supreme Power that we love our neighbors, that we be merciful and just in all our action. Perhaps we should be especially mindful of the warning that we should not judge others. We have to learn to be tolerant and to improve our own ways of living.

These things are hard at first because they run so contrary to the habits we have developed. Our task is to develop new habits in which we place the direction of our lives in the hands of a Power greater than our own. We have to do it first by conscious effort. Eventually we find that when we turn to the Supreme Power and accept the guidance of that power, the painful shackles fall away and the driving impulses lose their force and we find a measure of peace.

[* Reprinted from a series of eight editorial articles written in 1944 and first published in the Cleveland Central Bulletin an Alcoholics Anonymous newsletter.]

The Lord's Prayer...Week 3

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"This, then, is how you should pray: 'Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.' " —Matthew 6:9–15 (NIV)

Thy Kingdom Come:

In our thoughts on the Lord's Prayer. we are inclined to pass over the words, Thy kingdom come. The words seem to us to refer either to life beyond the grave, or to the age-old hope of the prophets and the religious for the day when God's kingdom shall be set up on earth and swords shall be beaten into plowshares.

But the Lord's Prayer is essentially a prayer for our daily needs, one through which we strive to place ourselves within the sphere of God's works. While the world at large still does not conduct itself as the Kingdom of God, the Kingdom exists today for all those who will turn to it.

For those of us who have found our lives unmanageable, the Kingdom of God is our sure refuge. By acknowledging ourselves as the subjects of a Power greater than our own, as obedient to the laws of life that have grown out of the experience of mankind throughout the ages, we can restore ourselves. We place ourselves in the Kingdom of God within us.

What is the Kingdom of God? The Apostle Paul said it is not meat or drink.

That means it is not the material side of lift. Those whose interests lie alone in bread, in wealth , in the comforts of life, do not find the Kingdom of God. They are more likely to find themselves victims of lust and greet, to find themselves selfish and intolerant, to find themselves where we found ourselves as the result of our one-sided interest in material things.

The Kingdom of God, said Paul, is righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.

Some of us shy away from words like "righteousness," which have a "goody-goodv" sound. But what is a righteous man but one who is upright and honest and fair and free from the will to do wrong.

The Kingdom of God. we might say, is the realm of honesty and unselfishness and purity and love, the four principles that guide our efforts to remake our lives. Some of our members call them the Four Absolutes.

The Kingdom of God is peace: the peace from the tortures of the mind and the flesh that we have suffered so many years. With honesty and unselfishness and purity and love, by being upright and fair and free from the will to do wrong, by casting from us the errors that have troubled us, we can relax and find peace in the Kingdom of God.

The Kingdom of God is joy in the Holy Spirit. Perhaps Paul meant to suggest that it is the joy that comes to us through acceptance of the Holy Spirit. And so it is. But many of us, who have spent so many years in error and have been inclined to look with contempt upon those persons who followed the way of God, tend to keep the Holy Spirit at arm's length. Many are inclined to think that it is not quite "grown up" to find joy in the Holy Spirit. Thus we persist in error, and deprive ourselves of the opportunity to find peace. We have to let ourselves find joy in the Holy Spirit.

It is well to recall the first three of the Twelve Steps. We confessed that we were powerless over alcohol and that our lives had become unmanageable. We decided that a Power greater than our own could restore us to sanity. We undertook to place our lives and our wills in the hands of that Power.

So now we acknowledge the Supreme Power, "Our Father." We regard that Power reverently. And we ask that we live today in the realm of that Power, when we are upright, where we find peace, where we find joy in the Holy Spirit. Thy Kingdom come.

[* Reprinted from a series of eight editorial articles written in 1944 and first published in the Cleveland Central Bulletin an Alcoholics Anonymous newsletter.]

The Lord's Prayer...Week 2

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"This, then, is how you should pray: 'Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.' " —Matthew 6:9–15 (NIV)

Hallowed Be Thy Name

When we discovered ourselves powerless over alcohol and unable to manage our own lives, we turned to a Power greater than our own.

When we have denied that Power, or ignored it, or when we have turned to that Power only mechanically, we have failed in our efforts to meet our problems. When we have turned to that Power and have done so sincerely, we have succeeded in regaining control over our lives and have progressed in the solution of our problems.

So another test of the existence of that Power, or our dependence upon it, is necessary.

That Power we recognize as being the supreme power in the universe. It has, and has had throughout history, many names. To most of us today, the name of the Supreme Power is simply God.

In our prayer, we say, "hallowed be thy Name." That means that the name of God is to be set aside as being holy; it is consecrated for sacred uses. It is revered, held in profound respect and at the same time regarded with love.

However, these are attitudes that are not limited merely to the name of God, as if the name were magical (as the ancients believed). These are attitudes that we take in our approach to God. We regard God as being apart from the profane world even though concerned with it. And in our approach to God, we are to put off all that is profane. We approach God with reverence, with profound respect, with love, and perhaps with fear. We acknowledge God's power over the universe. We acknowledge that the realm of God is the realm of the good. And we recognize that if we are to receive the help of God, we must strive consciously to separate ourselves from those things that are antagonistic to the good.

It is good for us to use restraint in the use of the name of God (the name being. for most of us, God), simply be-cause the profanation of the name tends to weaken and then destroy the meaning of the word in our minds. The name of God should call God into our minds, and should cause us to think of God's power, God's goodness, God's help to us. Through it, we should be able to shift gears from the profane world.

But again, "Hallowed be Thy Name" must mean something more to us than respect for God's name. It must be the supreme acknowledgment of God himself, and of our entire dependence upon God.

[* Reprinted from a series of eight editorial articles written in 1944 and first published in the Cleveland Central Bulletin an Alcoholics Anonymous newsletter.]

Exodus 3:12-14

And God said, "I will be with you. And this will be the sign to you that it is I who have sent you: When you have brought the people out of Egypt, you will worship God on this mountain."
Moses said to God, "Suppose I go to the Israelites and say to them, 'The God of your fathers has sent me to you,' and they ask me, 'What is his name?' Then what shall I tell them?"
God said to Moses, "I am who I am . This is what you are to say to the Israelites: 'I AM has sent me to you.' "

Daniel 2:19-21
During the night the mystery was revealed to Daniel in a vision. Then Daniel praised the God of heaven and said: "Praise be to the name of God for ever and ever; wisdom and power are his.
He changes times and seasons; he sets up kings and deposes them. He gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to the discerning.

Leviticus 19:12
Do not swear falsely by my name and so profane the name of your God. I am the LORD.

Deuteronomy 5:11
"You shall not misuse the name of the LORD your God, for the LORD will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.

Romans 2:23
You who brag about the law, do you dishonor God by breaking the law? As it is written: "God's name is blasphemed among the Gentiles because of you."

1 Timothy 6:1-2
All who are under the yoke of slavery should consider their masters worthy of full respect, so that God's name and our teaching may not be slandered. Those who have believing masters are not to show less respect for them because they are brothers. Instead, they are to serve them even better, because those who benefit from their service are believers, and dear to them. These are the things you are to teach and urge on them.

Developing Self Control

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Like a city whose walls are broken down is a man who lacks self-control. Proverbs 25:28 (NIV)

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Self-control brings with it the good feeling of competency. Like a finely-tuned precision automobile, your life stays on course with the slightest touch of steering. The results of self-control are confidence and an inner sense of security.

Self-control and self-discipline are also key factors in any success you hope to have in this life. Without self-discipline, you are unlikely to achieve anything of lasting value.

The Apostle Paul realized this when he wrote, “Every athlete in training submits to strict discipline, in order to be crowned with a wreath that will not last; but we do it for one that will last forever.” (1 Corinthians 9:25 GNT)

Olympic athletes train for years in order to have a chance to win a brief moment of glory. But the race we are running is far more important than any earthly athletic event. So self-control is not optional for Christians.

How do we gain true self-control?

1. Admit your problem. The starting point for developing self-control is to face what God has already said about me: I am responsible for my behavior.

James 1:14 (PH) says, “A man’s temptation is due to the pull of his own inward desires, which can be enormously attractive.”

Do you realize what that says? It says you do things because you like to do them! When I do something I know is bad for me, I still do it because I like to do it. I want to do it; it’s an inner desire.

Do you want more self-control? Admit you have a problem and be specific about it. Begin praying specifically about your problem areas.

2. Put your past behind you. Philippians 3:13-14 (NIV) says, “Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal ….”

This verse exposes a misconception that will keep you from gaining self-control: Once a failure, always a failure.

Failure in the past does not mean you’ll never be able to change. Focusing on past failures, however, does guarantee their repetition. It’s like driving a car and looking in the rearview mirror the whole time. You’re going to collide with what’s ahead of you.

Ask God to help you put your past behind you.

By Rick Warren
Reprinted from The Purpose Driven Life Daily Devotional

The Lord's Prayer...Week 1

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"This, then, is how you should pray: 'Our Father in heaven, hallowed by your name, your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.' " —Matthew 6:9–15 (NIV)

Our Father:

These are crucial words. Of all the words of the most universal of all prayers, these two words are of greatest importance to us.

In uttering them, we turn to a Power greater than our own. We turn from complete reliance upon our own egotistical natures, from exaggerated self love and self exaltation. We confess that our
efforts to run our entire lives in our own willful way have led to error, frustration, defeat, failure. We admit that the self justification that resulted from our errors has only deepened our defeat.

Even when we have seen the depth of our failure, the folly of self justification and the pitfalls of egotism, we have discovered that our efforts to re-establish ourselves solely through will power have led to more stumbling. Our wills, as one writer has observed, are where we are sickest.

So we, out of desperation turn to the sure Power that has always existed and make that Power the rock upon which we will rebuild our lives.

Many of us had long since lapsed in belief in any Supreme Power. Most of us had not addressed ourselves to that Power for many years, except, perhaps, in an occasional desperate moment.

In the realization of the position in which we have found ourselves, we come to a crossroads. We may continue to rely upon our sick wills and our erring judgments, which so often speak the words of justification. Our experience should show us what the result of following along that path may be.

Most of us find it better to choose the other path. Certainly all who have succeeded in application of the AA program have found this other path better. We turn from our selves to anchor our lives on something outside. Preferably, we anchor our lives to that something outside that we consider greater than ourselves, and eventually, we recognize that something as being the Supreme Power.

We bring that Supreme Power into our lives, and by so doing, we lift ourselves up. We think of that Supreme Power in our own terms, but we know that the realm of that Power is of realm of the Good, where the spirit may find peace.

With these words, Our Father, we address ourselves to the Supreme Power. In the morning when we get up to prepare for the day's work; in the evening when we retire and think for a few moments about our actions during the day that has just past, we place ourselves in the presence of that Supreme Power with the words, Our Father.

When occasion arises during the day, when we are sorely tempted, when we are angry, when we are resentful, when we pity ourselves, when we feel frustrated or worried, we can shift gears and connect ourselves with the Supreme Power by uttering the words, Our Father. There we will find help.

[* Reprinted from a series of eight editorial articles written in 1944 and first published in the Cleveland Central Bulletin an Alcoholics Anonymous newsletter.]

Putting Our Trust In the Right Place

2008-02-29T18:42:00.000-08:00

You always hear the usual stories of pennies on the sidewalk being good luck, gifts from angels, etc. This is the first time I've ever heard this twist on the story. Gives you something to think about.

Several years ago, a friend of mine and her husband were invited to spend the weekend at the husband's employer's home. My friend, Arlene, was nervous about the weekend. The boss was very wealthy, with a fine home on the waterway, and cars costing more than her house.

The first day and evening went well, and Arlene was delighted to have this rare glimpse into how the very wealthy live. The husband's employer was quite generous as a host, and took them to the finest restaurants. Arlene knew she would never have the opportunity to indulge in this kind of extravagance again, so was enjoying herself immensely.

As the three of them were about to enter an exclusive restaurant that evening, the boss was walking slightly ahead of Arlene and her husband.

He stopped suddenly, looking down on the pavement for a long, silent moment.

Arlene wondered if she was supposed to pass him. There was nothing on the ground except a single darkened penny that someone had dropped, and a few cigarette butts Still silent, the man reached down and picked up the penny.

He held it up and smiled, then put it in his pocket as if he had found a great treasure. How absurd! What need did this man have for a single penny? Why would he even take the time to stop and pick it up?

Throughout dinner, the entire scene nagged at her. Finally, she could stand it no longer. She casually mentioned that her daughter once had a coin collection, and asked if the penny he had found had been of some value.

A smile crept across the man's face as he reached into his pocket for the penny and held it out fo her to see. She had seen many pennies before! What was the point of this?

"Look at it." He said. "Read what it says."

She read the words "United States of America "

"No, not that; read further."

"One cent?" "No, keep reading."

"In God we Trust?" "Yes!" "And?"

"And if I trust in God, the name of God is holy, even on a coin. Whenever I find a coin I see that inscription. It is written on every single United States coin, but we never seem to notice it! God drops a message right in front of me telling me to trust Him? Who am I to pass it by? When I see a coin, I pray, I stop to see if my trust IS in God at that moment. I pick the coin up as a response to God; that I do trust in Him. For a short time, at least, I cherish it as if it were gold. I think it is God's way of starting a conversation with me. Lucky for me, God is patient and pennies are plentiful!"

When I was out shopping today, I found a penny on the sidewalk. I stopped and picked it up, an realized that I had been worrying and fretting in my mind about things I cannot change. I read the words, "In God We Trust," and had to laugh. Yes, God, I get the message.

It seems that I have been finding an inordinate number of pennies in the last few months, but then, pennies are plentiful! And, God is patient...

Reprinted from Liza's Eyeview.

A Time for Change

2008-01-09T11:20:00.000-08:00

A New Year’s Resolution:
Making each day a time for change
Jenni Schaefer

Do you have a New Year’s resolution? As the last seconds of the year tick away, we often become introspective and think about ways that we can improve our lives. Some of the most common promises we make to ourselves each January 1st involve spending more time with friends and family, taking better care of our bodies, and sticking to a budget.

This year my New Year’s resolution is to stop making New Year’s resolutions. Don’t get me wrong. It is a good thing to want to change our lives for the better on January 1st. But we must not forget that it is also a good thing to want to improve our lives on February 1st, May 12th, December 30th, or any other day. My point is that each moment is a time for positive change, not just the beginning of the year. So maybe I do, in fact, have a New Year’s resolution --- to make each and every day an opportunity for growth.

Unfortunately, many promises we make to ourselves are broken fairly shortly after they are set. When I was struggling with an eating disorder, I used to make promises to myself daily only to break them by nightfall. I had great ideas about how to recover, but I did not make a solid commitment to follow through with any of these concepts. So the concepts remained just that: concepts. Making real change in my life required a new kind of commitment. It required action.

Whether we make a commitment on January 1st or another day, we must learn to describe our goals in specific terms. I used to promise myself, “I will never again engage in eating disordered behaviors.”

After failing over and over again with the “never again” part, I realized that my goal was too broad. I needed to start smaller and to be more specific. So I made a commitment to eat lunch everyday for a month without restricting. I could make this happen. But making it happen required a plan.

When it comes to goals, we need plans. In my recovery and life, I have discovered that setting a goal without formulating a plan ends in the same result as if I had never set the goal in the first place. Without a plan, ideas remain ideas; concepts stay concepts. We need clear steps that can be put into action. For instance, when I became interested in exploring my spirituality, it helped for me to set aside a specific time each day to read spiritual literature, meditate, and pray.

Within our plans for progress, it is often beneficial to include accountability to others. When I made the commitment to eat lunch everyday, I was accountable to Nikki, a woman in my eating disorders support group. I made a promise to call Nikki everyday at noon and tell her my lunch plans. Regarding my work in spirituality, I became accountable to my sponsor in a Twelve-step group. Other people cannot only help with monitoring our progress, but they can also offer encouragement and provide a new perspective. A support team of friends, family members, health care professionals, and others is invaluable.

My support team encouraged me to write down my commitments to my recovery and myself in a journal. I have since realized that writing is a helpful step in accomplishing goals.

When we write down our goals, we must remain flexible. Just because a goal is written in some notebook does not mean that it cannot be changed. Life is all about change and being flexible. We must give our goals room to breathe and to thrive.

And we must acknowledge our successes --- big and small. While celebrating small successes, we keep our eyes set on the big change. At one point in my recovery from my eating disorder, my therapist said that the same small steps I had been making for years were just not going to cut it anymore. I was not making progress, so I needed to concentrate on drastic change.

Any drastic change I have ever accomplished in my life was the result of persistence and hard work. Nothing ever happened just because I woke up one morning and decided to change. No, things happened when I decided to change, took real action, and never gave up. Each morning, each moment is an opportunity for a new life.

I am not saying that we should never make a New Year’s resolution. I am saying that we should not limit ourselves to change at only one time of the year. The best time to change is not always January 1st.

And the best time to change is not tomorrow.

It is today.

[Jenni Schaefer is a singer/songwriter, speaker, and the author of Life Without Ed: How One Woman Declared Independence from Her Eating Disorder and How You Can Too (McGraw-Hill). She is a consultant with the Center for Change in Orem, UT. For more information, visit www.jennischaefer.com or email jenni@jennischaefer.com[.

Putting Past Mistakes Behind You

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Philippians 3:12 - 14 (NIV)
Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.

Leaving The Past Behind You

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By Rebecca Osborn

I read this quote by Rick Warren recently that really got me thinking.

"We are products of our past, but we do not have to be prisoners of it. God's purpose is not limited by your past. He turned a murderer named Moses into a leader and a coward named Gideon into a courageous hero, and he can do amazing things with the rest of your life, too. God specializes in giving people a fresh start."

Your past is a tricky thing. It has shaped you .You are who you are today because of it. It has made you who you are. If it was difficult or painful, you cannot just cut yourself off from it. However, to be healthy, productive, and successful, you cannot stay stuck in it either.

Here are a few tips to help you break free from your past and focus on your future.

1. Choose Healthy Programming.

This may sound a bit spooky and weird, but let me explain! When you were born into this world, you were born with a "blank slate." From then on, you began receiving "programming" from your parents, teachers, church, peers, community, and media. So, a large part of your past is your programming.

As an adult with free will, you need to choose healthy, positive, healing, motivational, and inspirational programing. You need to begin reading books and listening to audio and watching movies or shows that convey the value of the human spirit and focus on the potential of mankind. This may seem awkward at first because, even though your past programming is negative and painful, you are familiar with it and even feel safe with it. But over time, you will become comfortable with positive programming. You will feel happier and you will like yourself, which will lead to more productivity and success.

CHOOSE positive, healthy, inspirational programming. Read good books, listen to good audio, watch good TV, and socialize with positive people.

2. Realise That The Past Is Over.

Another thing you need to do to get a handle on your past is to put it into perspective. Most people consider their past to be their childhood and their teenage years. OK, let's say that's 18 years. Nowadays, most people live to be 70 or 80. So that is only 25% of your life. You can CHOOSE to program yourself with positive input and make the remaining 75% of your life one that is healthy, happy, productive, and successful.

3. Realise That Your Past Does Not Determine Your Future.

It is to easy to let what has happened in the past influence what you do in the future. For example, if you failed in a certain area before and focus on that, you end up saying things in your mind like "I failed then so I will fail now," or "I am damaged goods and I will never amount to anything."

BUT You could just as truthfully say, "I choose to learn from my past. My past taught me what NOT to do. My past challenges and trials made me stronger so I can face the real world today. I went through what I did so I can help others," and so on.

Your past may have been a difficult time, but you can steps like the ones listed above to keep it from messing up your present and your future.

Your past does not have to equal your present or YOUR FUTURE.

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Having A Blue Christmas?

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If your Christmas seems more blue than white this year, here are some tips to help you cope...

* If your family is more like Roseanne's than The Waltons, you're in good company. You're a real family and there very well may be arguments and rivalries among siblings. If Mom has always criticized you, she probably will this Christmas, too. Still, you don't have to let old patterns ruin your holiday. Remember you can't control your family members' actions, but you can control your reaction to them. This year use those challenging moments to practice forgiveness and acceptance. When all else fails, give yourself a time-out with a sympathetic listener and vent your frustrations.
* Share your time or resources with someone less fortunate. Volunteer at a homeless shelter for a day, deliver gifts to a retirement center, donate money to a worthy cause.
* Just say no! If you don't have time to do something, say so. Delegate responsibility for the `must dos' to other people...even kids can help straighten the house, take care of pets, wrap a few gifts.
* Don't judge the value of a gift by its price tag. If you give from the heart, your gift is never too small.
* Remember that things will go wrong. Kids get dirty, make noise, and argue. You may forget to buy the batteries, thaw the turkey, wrap the final gift in the back of the closet. Travel plans can go awry, dogs will jump on your party dress with their muddy paws, cookies may burn. Learn that these are minor setbacks...not major catastrophes! Practice coping with grace. Stop striving for unrealistic perfection.
* Can't be with someone you love because of divorce, death, finances, or other commitments? Find a creative way to make the holiday special. Spend time with a friend in a similar circumstance. Reach out to others who may be alone. Or, if possible, arrange to spend another day together as `Christmas.'

This Christmas try to be accepting of your feelings, your family, your shortcomings, and your desire to lead a better life. Share your love, strive for peace and good will. Reach out to your father in prayer and ask for strength to maintain your path to recovery.

Shopping Spree or Shopping Addiction?

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Shopping could be called one of America's favorite pastimes, but what happens when it spirals out of control, and in some cases, becomes an addiction?

Compulsive shopping and spending is defined as inappropriate, excessive, and out of control. Sometimes referred to as "shopoholism," shopping addiction can wreak havoc on your life, your family, and your finances.

So what are some of the signs that shopping has crossed the line and become an addiction? What should a concerned family member or friend look out for when they think shopping has become a problem?

* Spending over budget. Everyone goes over budget at times, but if it's a consistent behavior you or your loved one could be in trouble.
* Compulsive buying. If you go shopping for one pair of shoes and come out with 10, it could signify a problem.
* It's a chronic problem. Addictions are continuous problems. They're more than two or three months of the year, and more than a once-a-year Christmas shopping spree.
* Hiding the problem. Like other addictions, Shopoholics will hide their purchases because they don't want their significant other to know. They may have secret credit card accounts, too. Because this problem affects mostly women, as alcoholism affects mostly men, husbands will all of sudden be told their wife is $20,000-$30,000 in debt and they are responsible, and many times, this comes out in divorce
* A vicious circle. Some people will take their purchases back because they feel guilty. Debt may not be an issue because they're consistently returning things, but a problem still exists.
* Impaired relationships. Problems in relationships can occur because the person spends time away from home to shop, covers up debt with deception, and emotionally and physically starts to isolate themselves.

If you, or a loved one, has lost control of spending habits now is the time to turn to Celebrate Recovery for help. Our goal is to no longer rely on our dysfunctional, compulsive, and addictive behaviors as a temporary "fix" for our pain. We apply the 12 steps of recovery based on the scriptures, to experience healing and stronger relationships with others and God.

Meetings are Wednesdays at 7:00 P.M. You're invited to come to a safe place of fellowship and caring where you will have the opportunity to find joy, serenity, and the peace of God restored in your life.

Come and celebrate God's healing power!

Managing the Holidays

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Christmas, end of year reflections, decorations, good food, family time, holiday music, gifts...'tis the season to celebrate! For many of us it can also be a time of year when memories of loved ones we've lost come pouring into our minds, feelings of sadness can overwhelm us, and stressful situations with our friends and families are magnified. These feelings can trigger us into comprising our recovery.

Depression
It's not unusual for depression to accompany the anxiety of the holiday season. Because depression can make recovery difficult, extra care should be taken to deal with it as soon as the symptoms are detected. Call your accountability partner or ministry leader, attend a Celebrate Recovery, get some exercise! Depression is real and it hurts,with God's help you can feel better.

Stress
Holidays are stressful for many of us. Stress is your body's reaction to internal and external change. For most people, the holidays involve a great deal of change. Changes may be little: perhaps you have a lot of guests coming and you'll have to rearrange various rooms in your house. And changes may be huge: maybe this is your first holiday without one of your parents, your spouse, or children.

Don't underestimate the impact of those "little" changes. Stress can build up quickly, making you vulnerable to your specific triggers.

Stress might cause a relapse or, at least, halt your recovery for a while. As with depression, it's important to be aware of what's going on inside. You know right now that the next couple of weeks will be stressful. You can't control everything that will happen, but you can learn how to cope with your reactions.

We can't prevent most changes in life, and we probably wouldn't want to! The holidays can be a wonderful time of celebrating and being in the company of good people. Since you cannot prevent change and, therefore, cannot prevent stress, you'll want to learn the many ways you can cope with stress.

Grief
You may find yourself grieving during the holidays for any number of reasons. We grieve if a loved one dies, but other major losses may cause grief as well. Family relationships may produce intense emotions. Maybe one of your children will be away during the holidays this year. Maybe there was a family conflict during the year, and you won't be seeing certain relatives. Many situations like these can produce feelings of emptiness and loss.

For whatever reason you may be grieving, it's important to learn about grief and how you can cope with the situation. Don't underestimate the impact grief may have on you during a particular day. Reach out to family members and friends who may have experienced the same loss.

Loneliness
Holidays may produce intense feelings of loneliness, particularly because so many of us have ideals of what the "perfect" holiday should be. It's possible to feel lonely even with a group of people, particularly if that one special person is missing from the group.

Loneliness can hit hard and quickly. Don't think of yourself as immune from such feelings. Additionally, loneliness is an emotion that feeds depression. Think about where you will be this holiday season and how it will make you feel. Even if you will be alone during part of the holidays, you can plan ways to make yourself comfortable. One idea is to have several phone numbers of “buddies” available to call. Tell your support friends and your accountability partner that you might be calling during a specific time.

If you're looking for a safe place to share your struggles, strengths, hurts, and hopes with others, Celebrate Recovery may be for you. In a Christ-centered recovery
process, we work to overcome our negative and addictive behavior through community, scripture, and worship. For more information please contact John at 314-974-0873.

Celebrate Recovery meets Wednesday nights at 7:00pm at the McKnight Road Church of Christ in St. Louis, Missouri. Everyone is welcome! Please join us.

You don’t have to overspend to celebrate the holidays!

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Even for people who aren’t compulsive spenders, the holidays are often an excuse to ”blow the budget,” take on more debt, and go overboard on gifts for our friends or family. If overspending during the holidays is one of your patterns, now’s the time to develop an action plan! Remember: Being in recovery means becoming more responsible for our actions.

Before heading out to the mall this year, make a list of the ways you’re powerless over spending and shopping. Reflect on the ways your life has become unmanageable due to your overspending. Pray for strength to combat your weaknesses. Share your concerns with your accountability partner. Come to our weekly Celebrate Recovery meetings. Create a spending plan and commit to not exceeding your budget. Substitute a gratitude list for your usual shopping list. Finally, during your daily time with God, meditate on the true meaning of the holiday season.

Dealing with Loss

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You've heard the expression that "time heals all wounds." Unfortunately, in most cases it isn't true. No doubt you know people who are still carrying hurts from 30 or 40 years ago. The truth is - time often makes things worse. Wounds that are left untended fester and spread infection throughout your entire body. Time only extends the pain if the problem isn't dealt with. Celebrate Recovery can help you deal with your pain and loss. Our group is made up of people just like you, people who understand what you're experiencing. Together we share comfort and encouragement in a safe place where we can experience God's healing power. Join us Wednesdays at 7:00pm at the McKnight Road Church of Christ.

James 4:7-8

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...obey God. Stand up to the devil. He will run away from you. Come near to God, and he will come near to you.

What is Co-Dependence

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* My good feelings about who I am stem from being loved by you.
* My good feelings about who I am stem from receiving approval from you.
* Your struggle affects my serenity. My mental attention focuses on solving your problems or relieving your pain.
* My mental attention is focused on pleasing you.
* My mental attention is focused on protecting you.
* My self-esteem is bolstered by solving your problems.
* My self-esteem is bolstered by relieving your pain.
* My own hobbies and interests are put aside. My time is spent sharing your interests and hobbies.
* Your clothing and personal appearance are dictated by my desires as I feel you are a reflection of me.
* Your behavior is dictated by my desires as I feel you are a reflection of me.
* I am not aware of how I feel. I am aware of how you feel.
* I am not aware of what I want -- I ask what you want. I am not aware -- I assume.
* The dreams I have for my future are linked to you.
* My fear of rejection determines what I say or do.
* My fear of your anger determines what I say or do.
* I use giving as a way of feeling safe in our relationship.
* My social circle diminishes as I involve myself with you.
* I put my values aside in order to connect with you.
* I value your opinion and way of doing things more than my own.
* The quality of my life is in direct relation to the quality of yours.

THERE IS A SOLUTION
By working through the eight recovery principles found in the Beatitudes with Jesus Christ as your Higher Power, you can and will change! You will begin to experience the true peace and serenity you have been seeking, and you will no longer have to rely on your codependent behaviors as a temporary "fix" for your pain.

Is Celebrate Recovery for You?

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What is a hurt, habit or hang-up?
Abuse, Alcohol, Divorce, Anger, Tobacco, Co-Dependency, Drugs, Sex, Pornography, Need to Control, Care-taking, Compulsive Behavior, Depression…

Anything that hinders our walk with God!

Everyone is welcome
Wednesday Nights
7:00pm
McKnight Road Church of Christ
St. Louis, Missouri

Call 314-974-0873 for more information

Daily Recovery Checklist

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When you're on the road to recovery, how do you keep from falling back into your old ways? Take a look at the following checklist.

Post your comments about what helps you!

1. In the morning pray, ask God to help keep you from your hurt, habit or hang-up.

2. Read the Bible, other inspirational books, and informational literature on your specific area of recovery.

3. Call someone in recovery and stay accountable.

4. Go to a recovery meeting, Bible study, or meet with your accountability partner...get fed daily!

5. In the evening pray, thank God for helping you throughout the day.

4th Step Spiritual Inventory

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Whew! It was great to get together and work on our fourth step inventories. I think we all made some good progress. Remember it's a process...and there are no right or wrong answers. God doesn't expect perfection!

Our Bodies Are To Be A Living Gift To God

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Romans 12:1-2 (NLV)
1 Christian brothers, I ask you from my heart to give your bodies to God because of His loving-kindness to us. Let your bodies be a living and holy gift given to God. He is pleased with this kind of gift. This is the true worship that you should give Him. 2 Do not act like the sinful people of the world. Let God change your life. First of all, let Him give you a new mind. Then you will know what God wants you to do. And the things you do will be good and pleasing and perfect.

Serenity Prayer

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God, Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. Living one day at a time; enjoying one moment at a time; accepting hardship as a pathway to peace; taking, as Jesus did , this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it; trusting that You will make all things right if I surrender to Your will; so that I may be reasonably happy in this life and supremely happy with You forever in the next.

In Jesus' Name, Amen

-Reinhold Niebuhr

What are you saying to yourself?

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What we say to ourselves is powerful! Listen to the voice in your head and see if you can't turn some of the negatives into postive, helpful statements. Here are some examples:

This is hopeless.... I can't! I'm paralyzed with fear!
Act As If

I've got to understand everything before I do anything.
Analysis Is Paralysis

I've got to fix it now! It's time to get running.
Don't Just Do Something, Sit There

I'm bad. I'm unworthy. I must whip myself into shape.
Easy Does It

I've got to do it all at once. Who needs priorities?
First Things First

My life depends on it!
How Important Is It?

It seems really complicated...
Keep It Simple

I've got to hang on to it... I don't trust...I must do it myself.
Let Go And Let God

I don't want to hear it. I already know it. I know everything.
Listen And Learn

It drives me crazy when people do that.
Live And Let Live

It's too much for me... I feel overwhelmed by the future.
One Day At A Time

I've got to do everything perfectly. I've got to be perfect.
Progress Not Perfection

I feel like I will die if I don't get some relief.
This Too Shall Pass

I can’t believe he/she did that to me. I will get revenge.
Hurt People - Hurt People

It’s not possible for good to come out of this situation.
God Never Wastes A Hurt

Here I am, back in the same mess again.
Nothing Changes If Nothing Changes

This is not working for me. I give up.
Don’t Quit Before the Miracle

I am so mad I can’t even think straight.
Those Who Anger You Control You

I won’t stop until I prove that I am right.
Do You Want To Be Right - Or Well?

My mind is running in a million different directions.
Keep The Main Thing -The Main Thing

2 Corinthians 5:17

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Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!

Anger Self Evaluation

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The following inventory can help you determine whether your anger is reaching a destructive level in your life.

• I become impatient easily when things do not go according to my plan.
• I tend to have critical thoughts toward others who don't agree with my opinions.
• When I am displeased with someone I may shut down any communication with them or
withdraw entirely.
• I get annoyed easily when friends and family do not appear sensitive to my needs.
• I feel frustrated when I see someone else having an easier time than me.
• Whenever I am responsible for planning an important event, I am preoccupied with how I must manage it.
• When talking about a controversial topic, the tone of my voice is likely to become louder more assertive.
• I can accept a person who admits his or her mistakes, but I get irritated easily at those who refuse to admit their weaknesses.
• I do not easily forget when someone does me wrong.
• When someone confronts me with a misinformed opinion, I am thinking of my comeback
even while they are speaking.
• I find myself becoming aggressive even while playing a game for fun.
• I struggle emotionally with the things in life that aren't fair.
• Although I realize that it may not be right, I sometimes blame others for my problems.
• More often than not, I use sarcasm as a way of expressing humor.
• I may act kindly toward others on the outside, yet feel bitter and frustrated on the inside.

If you recognize 4-8 of the above, your anger is probably more constant than you would like. If you identified with 9 or more boxes, there's a strong possibility that you've struggled with periods of anger or rage, whether you're aware of it or not.

(Adapted from The Anger Workbook, written by Dr. Les Carter and Dr. Frank Minirth)

Characteristics of Survivors of Abuse

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Survivors of Abuse often…
¨ Hesitate to identify themselves as victims of abuse.
¨ Feel isolated, depressed, worthless, shameful and helpless to change.
¨ Struggle with negative feelings about God.
¨ Condemn themselves as responsible for the abuse.
¨ Deny that being abused in the past somehow affects present
circumstances.
¨ Lack self-control; feel defeated in areas of compulsive behaviors.
¨ Feel angry and/or bitter.
¨ Have trouble with authority figures.
¨ Have difficulty trusting others or place unwarranted trust in unsafe
individuals.
¨ Lack self-worth.
¨ Are preoccupied with thoughts of what it means to have a “normal”
relationship with others: friends, family, the opposite sex.
¨ Lack a healthy sexual identity.
¨ Act in sexually inappropriate ways.
¨ Question their self-identity—“Who am I?”
¨ Question whether life has a purpose or is worth living.
¨ Feel “at home” in crisis situations.
¨ Struggle with perfectionism or “all or nothing thinking”.
¨ Desire or fantasize about a better life.

If you're a survivor of abuse join us at Celebrate Recovery, Wednesday nights at 7:00pm, at the McKnight Road Church of Christ (click on the link for directions). Celebrate Recovery provides a safe environment for real life change in Jesus Christ, as we work through specific biblically-based recovery steps in the context of Christian community. We recognize the truth that we need each other to grow personally and spiritually.

Frequently Asked Questions

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What is Celebrate Recovery?
Celebrate Recovery is a nationwide recovery program based on God’s Word, the Bible. Christ began His sermon on the mount by stating eight ways to be happy, commonly referred to as "The Beatitudes." These eight principles are God’s road to recovery, wholeness, growth and spiritual maturity. Celebrate Recovery holds weekly “Open Meetings” on Wednesday nights. We have a lesson and a period of open sharing focusing on the 12-step recovery process.

Is Celebrate Recovery right for me?
Celebrate Recovery is for anyone who is seeking a God-mended life. If you have a hurt, habit, or hang-up, it’s for you. Ask yourself these questions:
Is there a habit, substance or compulsion dominating my life?Is there an addiction that has become destructive?Am I being controlled by something that is blocking me from experiencing joy in my life?Am I codependent on someone else’s addictions or habits?Is a past abuse in my life preventing me from being able to move forward?If you answered yes to any of these questions, then we urge you to attend a Celebrate Recovery meeting and see if you find it to be a safe place to start healing!

What types of issues does Celebrate Recovery address?
Celebrate Recovery addresses all types of habits, hurts, and hang-ups. Some recovery programs deal only with alcohol or drugs or another single problem.

What is the difference between Celebrate Recovery and AA (or other 12-step programs)?
The primary difference is that Celebrate Recovery focuses on Jesus Christ as the true Higher Power and uses God’s Word as the authority in relation to the Twelve Steps. AA traditionally uses a general interpretation of a Higher Power while Celebrate Recovery ties in to Christ's teachings as given in the Bible.

Is Celebrate Recovery confidential?
Yes, the Celebrate Recovery guidelines maintain strict confidentiality to create a “safe place” where you can take off the “mask” and be real and honest without fear. Confidentiality is a primary principle of the program.

Does Celebrate Recovery cost anything to attend?
Celebrate Recovery is a completely free ministry.

Do I have to be a member of the McKnight Road Church of Christ?
No, Celebrate Recovery is a ministry for anyone who is interested in Christ-centered recovery. You do not need to attend or be a member of the McKnight Road Church of Christ.

Celebrate Recovery Principles

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[Based on the Beatitudes]

Realize I'm not God; I admit I am powerless to control my tendency to do the wrong thing and my life is unmanageable. "Happy are those who know they are spiritually poor"
Earnestly believe that God exists, that I matter to Him, and that He has the power to help me recovery. "Happy are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted"
Consciously choose to commit all my life and will to Christ's care and control. "Happy are the meek"
Openly examine and confess my faults to God, to myself, and to another person whom I trust. "Happy are the pure in heart"
Voluntarily submit to any and all changes God wants to make in my life. "Happy are those whose greatest desire is to do what God requires"
Evaluate all my relationships; offer forgiveness to those who have hurt me and make amends for harm I've done to others when possible, without expecting any reward. "Happy are the merciful" "Happy are the peacemakers"
Reserve a daily time with God for prayer, Bible reading, and self examination in order to know God and His will for my life and to gain the power to follow His will. "Happy are they who hunger and thirst after righteousness"
Yield myself to be used by God to bring this Good News to others, both by my example and by my words. "Happy are those who are persecuted because they do what God requires"

Welcome to Celebrate Recovery

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Celebrate Recovery meets Wednesday nights

7:00pm

McKnight Road Church of Christ

2515 S. McKnight Road

St. Louis, MO 63124

call 314-962-7026 or 314-974-0873 for more information